Meg Miller, founder of Stand With Meg
Family rights registry · Public dashboard · Court actor record

The public record for families fighting government separation.

Stand With Meg turns isolated family court, child welfare, custody, GAL, attorney, evaluator, and local agency stories into searchable data, public reports, and a court actor registry that families can point to. Evidence over silence.

50
US states represented
US territories and additional jurisdictions are tracked separately.
13
countries worldwide
$497M+
reported financial harm across families
3+
independent family threshold before public actor naming
242,000+Combined following across TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, X, and YouTube

One front door. Three actions.

The site does not gate families behind a dashboard login. It routes them to the exact thing they came here for: add their case, see the pattern, or check a court actor.

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My Stand With Meg Survey

Families share location, case details, financial loss, due process concerns, public quotes, and court actors. Anonymous, first-name, public, and data-only options are available. The survey is the primary path into the registry.

Take the survey
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Public Dashboard

State and global movement data, public quotes, state PDF reports, family losses, months of parenting time lost, and report-ready states. Families can see they are not alone, and reporters can pull verifiable numbers.

Open the dashboard
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Court Actor Registry

Search judges, attorneys, GALs, evaluators, therapists, agencies, and other actors. File 'on my case' reports. Public actor naming is threshold-gated by independent family reports — pattern first, name second.

Search court actors

A global movement, not a single case.

The dashboard already reaches all 50 US states and is now logging families in Canada, Australia, the United Kingdom, Spain, Botswana, and beyond. The pattern is visible the moment families compare notes.

50US states representedUS territories and additional jurisdictions tracked separately
13Countries worldwide
4,655 yrsCombined parenting time lost across families
$497MReported family losses on record
1,287Families forced to represent themselves pro se
33Report-ready states with PDFs available

Numbers are pulled from family-reported entries to the survey and surfaced live in the public dashboard. They reflect what families have chosen to report — not a court adjudication. Data may be temporarily cached.

Behind the registry

One mother. One date. One reason this exists.

Stand With Meg is built around a real case. Meg was a single mom of five. On January 29, 2024, Johnson County, Kansas removed her five children through an emergency court action. DCF later determined the allegations unsubstantiated. The clock has been running ever since.

How long Meg has been kept from her five children

  1. 829Days
  2. 04Hours
  3. 13Minutes
  4. 58Seconds

This counter is not decoration. It is the clock behind the registry: a mother of five documenting what happened, building the public record, and helping families prove they are not alone.

Counting from January 29, 2024· the day Johnson County, Kansas removed Meg’s five children

Find your city. Find your state. Find the pattern.

Local pages link families to the survey, the public dashboard, and the court actor registry. State pages connect to the live PDF reports families helped build.

County hot spots families are reporting.

County aggregates pulled from the public registry. Counties only appear here once enough independent families have submitted to the survey. Numbers are family-reported, not court adjudication. Showing reference set while live data refreshes.

Open the public dashboard for the full county and state breakdown, or add your county to the registry.

More ways into the work.

The registry is the spine. Around it are the show, the shop, the donate page, and the about page — all of them serving the same record.

— Donate

Without donations, this stops.

Hosting, document storage, state reports, and legal compliance review every time a court actor name goes public. No grants. No agency. No salary.

Donate
— The show

The Stand With Meg Show.

Long-form conversations with families, attorneys, GAL and evaluator reformers, journalists, and legislators building the public record.

Open the show
— Shop

Books and gear that fund the registry.

Curated reading list, field gear, and the free state report PDFs. Amazon affiliate links and gear funnel directly into the registry, not a salary.

Open the shop

Before you submit anything.

Read this before you fill out the survey, search the registry, or point another family here.

What is Stand With Meg, and how is it different from a lawyer directory?

Stand With Meg is a public registry, dashboard, and court actor record built by families who lived through family court, child welfare, custody, GAL, attorney, evaluator, agency, or government separation harm. It is not a lawyer directory and it does not give legal advice. It is a public evidence tool that families can point to.

Is the survey safe to fill out if my case is still active?

Yes. The My Stand With Meg survey supports anonymous, first-name-only, public, and data-only options. You choose what is shown publicly. Quotes and details are only attached to your name when you allow it.

Will the court actors I report show up in Google searches automatically?

Not automatically. When enough independent families report the same court actor, Stand With Meg can show the pattern publicly. That public record can become discoverable by families searching names, courts, attorneys, judges, GALs, evaluators, and local custody systems. We do not promise that every actor will appear in Google, and we do not treat reports as proven allegations.

What is the threshold before a court actor name becomes public?

Public actor naming requires multiple independent families to submit verified case information about the same actor through the survey. Until that threshold is met, names stay non-public. This protects both families and the integrity of the record.

Can I use this to find a divorce or custody attorney near me?

We can show you what other families in your city or state are reporting, link you to your state report, and let you search the court actor registry. We will not tell you which attorney to hire. Use this to inform your search, then verify everything yourself.

How do I get help right now if I am in crisis?

If you or your child are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Stand With Meg is a public record and pressure tool, not a hotline. The fastest way to add your case to the public pattern is the survey, and the fastest way to see what families like yours are reporting is the public dashboard.

Safety reminder. Stand With Meg is a public record and pressure tool, not a hotline. If you or your child are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first. The registry is here for the long fight.
One more family changes the pattern.

The next case on record might be the one that names the pattern.

Anonymous, first-name, public, and data-only options are available. Court actor naming stays threshold-gated. Your record matters even when the system failed to keep it.